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Getting Started & Requirements

Who can adopt, eligibility, residency, and your state's adoption laws.

Answers by state

Choose a question, then your state

These answers change with each state's law, so every state has its own guide.

What are the requirements for stepparent adoption?
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What are adoption laws?
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What is the residency requirement for adoption?
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Can I adopt my stepchild if I have a criminal record?
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Can I adopt without being married?
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Do I have to wait after getting married before I can adopt my stepchild?
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Does allow second-parent adoption for unmarried LGBTQ+ couples?
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Can a step-grandparent adopt a grandchild?
AlabamaAlaskaArizonaArkansasCaliforniaColoradoConnecticutDelawareDistrict of ColumbiaFloridaGeorgiaHawaiiIdahoIllinoisIndianaIowaKansasKentuckyLouisianaMaineMarylandMassachusettsMichiganMinnesotaMississippiMissouriMontanaNebraskaNevadaNew HampshireNew JerseyNew MexicoNew YorkNorth CarolinaNorth DakotaOhioOklahomaOregonPennsylvaniaRhode IslandSouth CarolinaSouth DakotaTennesseeTexasUtahVermontVirginiaWashingtonWest VirginiaWisconsinWyoming
How do I adopt my stepson or stepdaughter?
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How old do you have to be to adopt?
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Are there any special requirements for adoption?
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Guides that apply wherever you live

Are there religious requirements for stepparent adoption?Can a non-citizen adopt a stepchild?Can a same-sex stepparent adopt?Can a stepfather adopt his wife's child?Can a stepmother adopt her husband's child?Can a stepparent adopt a child born out of wedlock?Can an unmarried partner adopt when the parent is willing to consent?Can both my spouse and I adopt each other's children from prior relationships?Can I adopt multiple stepchildren at once?Can I adopt multiple stepchildren who have different fathers?Can I adopt my stepchild if I was previously married to someone else?Can I adopt my stepchild if I work in one state but live in another?Can I adopt my stepchild if I'm currently pregnant?Can I adopt my stepchild if I'm in a same-sex marriage?Can I adopt my stepchild if I'm not a U.S. citizen?Can I adopt my stepchild if there are unpaid child support arrears?Can I adopt my stepchild if there is an existing custody order?Can I get a passport for my adopted stepchild?Can I pursue stepparent adoption during ongoing custody proceedings?Can my spouse adopt my child from a previous relationship?Does stepparent adoption affect Social Security benefits for the child?How can LGBTQ+ families use stepparent or second-parent adoption?How do I add my adopted stepchild to my health insurance?How do I know if I'm eligible for stepparent adoption?How does stepparent adoption affect FAFSA and college financial aid?How is stepparent adoption different from third-party adoption?We divorced and remarried — can my spouse adopt my child now?What happens if the adoption is contested?What is the difference between guardianship and adoption for stepparents?

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