How old do you have to be to adopt in Iowa?

Short answer: In Iowa, you must be an adult to adopt. That means either an unmarried adult, or a husband and wife adopting together (Iowa Code § 600.4). Iowa Code § 600.2(1) defines "adult," and the District Court clerk in your county can confirm the exact numeric age that applies to you.

What this means for a stepparent

• Married couples usually adopt together. If you are married, the general rule is that spouses adopt jointly.
• Stepparents are an exception. A married person may petition separately only if the person being adopted is not their own spouse, and only as a stepparent or under the abandonment or absence exceptions. In a typical stepparent adoption, you can petition on your own with your spouse's consent to the adoption.
• Your spouse's consent matters. Iowa requires a spouse's consent to the adoption as part of the filing.

Age differences between you and the child

You may be wondering whether Iowa requires a certain age gap between the adopter and the child. For an answer specific to your family, ask the District Court clerk or an attorney.

Age and the child's consent

The child's age matters in one other way. If the child is 14 or older, the child's consent is part of the process (Iowa Code § 600.7). Younger children do not have this consent requirement.

Other requirements that are not age-based

• Residency: Iowa has no minimum residency period before you can file (Iowa Code § 600.3).
• Court: Your petition goes to the District Court in your county.
• Home study: In a stepparent adoption, the home study is waived (Iowa Code § 600.8).
• Timeline: Stepparent adoptions typically take 3-6 months. Iowa requires a 180-day period from filing to finalization.
• Court filing fee: Typically $150-$250.

If you are thinking about adopting an adult

Iowa permits adult adoption, and no termination of parental rights is needed first. The adoptee must consent if 14 or older. Adult adoption does not require a home study, and the typical timeline is 4-8 weeks. A person cannot adopt their own spouse.

When your situation is more complicated

If the other biological parent will not consent, cannot be found, or you think abandonment may apply, the outcome depends on your specific facts. Iowa does not set a fixed number of months for abandonment. It looks at the parent's overall conduct (Iowa Code § 600A.8). For a case like that, talk to the District Court clerk or an attorney.

How we help

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