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Can I adopt without being married in Washington DC?

1 min readHelping families since 2001District of Columbia

Traditional stepparent adoption requires a legal marriage. However, some states allow second parent adoption for unmarried partners.

Washington DC's position: This varies and can depend on the specific distric and judge. We recommend contacting us to discuss your specific situation.

States where we've completed adoptions for unmarried couples include: California, Connecticut, Idaho, Illinois, Indiana, Louisiana, Maine, Massachusetts, Montana, New Hampshire, New Jersey, Oklahoma, Oregon, Pennsylvania, Rhode Island, Tennessee, Vermont, Virginia, Washington, and Washington DC.

If you're planning to marry: You may want to wait until after the wedding to file the adoption, as stepparent adoption has a well-established legal framework in every state.

Call us at (855) 924-0450 to discuss your specific situation. We can advise whether your Washington DC distric has granted adoptions to unmarried partners.

Stepparent adoption in Washington DC at a glance

Court
Superior Court
Residency before filing
No minimum period
Typical timeline
3-6 months
Child must consent at age
14
Home study
Usually waived for stepparents
Washington DC families we've helped
71

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