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The abandonment period — how long the biological parent must have had no meaningful contact with the child — varies by state:
Most common: 12 months (1 year)
This applies in the majority of states.
Shorter periods:
- Pennsylvania: 90 days (3 months)
- Alabama: 6 months
- South Carolina: 6 months
- Several other states have 6-month periods
What counts as "no meaningful contact":
- No visits with the child
- No phone calls to the child
- No letters or communication with the child
- No participation in the child's life
What does NOT negate abandonment:
- Paying child support (abandonment is about the relationship, not money)
- Occasional "token" contact (one brief call in a year)
- Sending a birthday card once
Over 80% of our 34,000+ completed adoptions were based on abandonment. Courts handle this routinely and are very familiar with the pattern of an absent biological parent.
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