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No. Token contact — an occasional phone call, a single visit in a year, a birthday card — does NOT constitute meaningful parental involvement.
What courts consider "token contact":
- One phone call in several months
- A single brief visit (especially if court-ordered)
- Sending a card or gift without ongoing relationship
- Social media interaction without real-world involvement
- Sporadic text messages to your spouse (not the child)
What courts consider "meaningful contact":
- Regular, consistent visits with the child
- Active participation in the child's daily life
- Ongoing communication directly with the child
- Involvement in school, medical, and extracurricular activities
The standard is clear: The biological parent must demonstrate a genuine, ongoing relationship with the child. Minimal, sporadic contact is considered token and does not defeat an abandonment claim.
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