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Can I adopt my stepchild if I'm in a same-sex marriage in New York?

1 min readHelping families since 2001New York
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Yes! Same-sex stepparent adoption is legal in all 50 states, including New York. The process is exactly the same as any other stepparent adoption.

Since the Supreme Court's 2015 Obergefell v. Hodges decision, same-sex marriages have full legal recognition nationwide. Your stepparent adoption in New York will be filed in Family Court or Surrogate's Court using the same process and the same documents.

Requirements are identical:

  • Legal marriage to your spouse
  • 0 months residency in New York
  • Consent or abandonment of the other biological parent
  • Background check
  • Child consent if age 14+

We've helped many same-sex families complete their adoptions. Our cost is the same $349, and we prepare all documents customized for your New York county. There is no difference in the process or outcome.

Stepparent adoption in New York at a glance

Court
Family Court or Surrogate's Court
Residency before filing
No minimum period
Typical timeline
3-6 months
Court filing fee
$200-$500
Child must consent at age
14
Home study
May be required
New York families we've helped
1,119

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