
Make Your New York Family Official.New York stepparent and adult adoption, done for you, with court-ready documents for the Family Court or Surrogate's Court in 24-48 hours.
We guide your family step by step, from your first questions to the day the judge signs your decree, so you never face the paperwork alone.

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We make your New York adoption simple, fast and affordable.
- A New York adoption specialist handles your case.
- We stay with you from filing to the new birth certificate.
- Unlimited revisions and real people on the phone, Mon–Fri 8am–5pm MST.
Four stages. One court. About 3-6 months.
In New York, stepparent adoptions go through the Family Court or Surrogate's Court in your county, and most families finish in 3-6 months.
Day one · OnlineTell us about your family
Tell us about your family
Answer simple questions about you, your spouse, your stepchild and the other parent. We turn your answers into New York forms. There is no legal jargon and no guessing.
New York Domestic Relations Law Article 7Within 24-48 hoursFile with your county court
File with your county court
Your court-ready documents arrive in 24-48 hours. You file them with the clerk of the Family Court or Surrogate's Court in the county where you live. The clerk sets the filing fee.
N.Y. Dom. Rel. Law § 115(2)After filingThe other parent signs or the court decides
The other parent signs or the court decides
If the other parent will sign, we prepare the consent. If not, we prepare the notice and abandonment papers. A child over 14 also gives consent.
N.Y. Dom. Rel. Law § 111About 3-6 monthsHearing, decree and new birth certificate
Hearing, decree and new birth certificate
You appear before the judge or surrogate, and the court signs your final decree. We then help you request the new birth certificate from the New York State Department of Health Vital Records.
New York State Department of Health Vital RecordsDoes the other parent have to agree?
No. Courts want a two-parent home for your child, and most families we help finish without the other parent's consent. In our experience, about 80% of the stepparent adoptions we have completed went forward without the other parent's consent.
They agree
If the other parent is willing, the process is simple. They sign a consent, and we prepare it for you.
- We prepare the consent form for the other parent
- A child over 14 signs their own consent
- Signed consents are filed with your petition
They won't sign, or can't be found
If the other parent will not sign or cannot be found, New York law still gives your family a path forward.
- A parent who has abandoned the child for 6 months does not have to consent
- The other parent receives notice, and we prepare the papers that show the 6 months of abandonment
Notice is routine, and we prepare it for you. In New York, termination is not a separate case. It is handled inside the same adoption case.
N.Y. Dom. Rel. Law § 111(2)One flat price for your New York paperwork
The same decree, the same court, without attorney fees.
What New York families tell us
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What arrives in 24–48 hours
Your New York packet, in filing order, with instructions for your clerk.
See all 6 documents
- Petition for adoption prepared for the Family Court or Surrogate's Court in your county
- Consent forms for the other parent, or notice and abandonment papers if they will not sign
- Consent form for a child over 14
- Stepparent, spouse and child information forms, including the paperwork for the court's home study investigation
- Hearing documents and a proposed order for the judge or surrogate
- Final decree of adoption and your new birth certificate request to the New York State Department of Health Vital Records
Adult adoption is allowed in New York
New York lets an unmarried adult, a married couple together, or two unmarried adult partners together adopt another person. The statute we reviewed has no relative, stepchild or age-gap condition. The adoptee consents if over 14, unless the judge or surrogate dispenses with it, and the parents' consent is not required for an adult adoptee. You file in the Family Court or Surrogate's Court of the county where you live. If you do not live in New York, you file in the county where the adoptee lives. The adopter, the adoptee and everyone whose consent is required appear before the judge or surrogate, and the court may excuse the adoptee from appearing. Adult cases often finish in 2-4 weeks.
Three steps. That's the whole thing.
Our detailed New York instructions make the process simple, and we are a phone call away at every step.

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Not sure which route fits your family? Call us. Real people, no pressure, and we will tell you what New York courts will want to see.
All 62 New York counties covered
New York has 62 counties, and you file in the Family Court or Surrogate's Court of the county where you live. We prepare your documents for families from New York City, Buffalo, Rochester, Yonkers, Syracuse and every county in between.
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What New York families ask us
How do I adopt my stepchild in New York?
You file a petition in the Family Court or Surrogate's Court of the county where you live. A spouse may adopt the other spouse's child under N.Y. Dom. Rel. Law § 110. We prepare your documents in 24-48 hours, and most cases finish in 3-6 months.
Can I adopt my adult stepchild in New York?
Yes. New York allows adult adoption under N.Y. Dom. Rel. Law 110, and the statute we reviewed has no stepchild or age-gap condition. The adoptee must consent if over 14, unless the judge or surrogate dispenses with it, and adult cases often finish in 2-4 weeks.
How much does a stepparent adoption cost in New York?
Our complete package is $349, and each additional child is $99. The county clerk sets the court filing fee, so call the clerk to confirm it. We have helped 1,119 New York families with this process.
What if the other parent refuses to sign or can't be found in New York?
Your case can still go forward. A parent who has abandoned the child for 6 months does not have to consent under N.Y. Dom. Rel. Law § 111(2). In our experience, about 80% of the stepparent adoptions we have completed went forward without the other parent's consent, and we prepare the notice.
Is a home study required for a stepparent adoption in New York?
Yes. New York does not waive the court's investigation for stepparent adoptions under N.Y. Dom. Rel. Law § 112(7); § 116. We prepare your paperwork so the process stays clear and manageable.
Does my child have to agree to the adoption in New York?
A child over 14 must give consent under N.Y. Dom. Rel. Law § 111, unless the judge or surrogate dispenses with it. We prepare the child's consent form with the rest of your packet.
Does a stepparent adoption end child support in New York?
Child support going forward ends when the adoption is final, because the other parent's legal duty ends. Past-due support depends on New York law. We can explain how this works when you call.
How do I get a new birth certificate after adopting in New York?
After the court signs your final decree, you request an amended birth certificate from the New York State Department of Health Vital Records. We prepare that request for you. The effect of the adoption is set out in N.Y. Dom. Rel. Law § 117.
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