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Yes. The biological parent's location does not prevent you from filing for adoption in California. You file where you and the child live, not where the biological parent lives.
How service works across state lines:
- The biological parent can be served in any state
- You can use a process server or sheriff in their state
- If they're cooperative, they can sign consent and have it notarized in their state
- If their location is unknown, service by publication is available
Key requirements remain the same:
- You must meet California's 0-month residency requirement
- The adoption is filed in your local Superior Court
- California law applies, not the other state's law
Cross-state situations are common in our experience — many biological parents live far away. We prepare all necessary documents for your specific scenario.
Stepparent adoption in California at a glance
- Court
- Superior Court
- Residency before filing
- Must be actual residents of California; no specific duration required
- Typical timeline
- 3 months
- Court filing fee
- $200-$500
- Child must consent at age
- 12
- Home study
- Usually waived for stepparents
- California families we've helped
- 1,219
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