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A PCS move to Missouri doesn't create a residency waiting period for stepparent adoption. Missouri sets no minimum residency period under RSMo § 453.010, so you don't have to wait a set number of months after arriving before you file in the Circuit Court.
If you are moving to Missouri:
- You can start the process as soon as you are settled and ready, without counting months of residency.
- Which county's Circuit Court is the right one to file in depends on your situation. The Circuit Court clerk in the county where you live or plan to file can confirm this, especially if you have just arrived.
- Missouri's timeline for a stepparent adoption is typically 3-6 months, so it helps to plan around your orders and your family's schedule.
If you are moving away from Missouri:
- Whether a case that is already filed can continue after you leave, and whether any hearing can be handled remotely, depends on your facts and the court. Ask the Circuit Court clerk in your county, or an attorney, before you move.
- Filing before a move gives the court and the clerk more time to work with you on scheduling. Talk to the clerk early about your expected move date.
What stays the same no matter where you are stationed:
- Home study: Missouri waives the home study for stepparent adoption (RSMo § 453.070), so there is no home visit to schedule around a move.
- Background checks: Missouri requires background checks to protect the child, including a criminal background check for the stepparent. Plan for these as part of your timeline.
- Child's consent: The child's consent requirement begins at age 14 (RSMo § 453.030). If your child is 14 or older, their consent is part of the process.
- Other parent's rights: Missouri uses a 6-month abandonment period (RSMo § 453.040) in situations involving a parent who has not been involved. If the other parent is unknown, unreachable, or opposed, the right steps depend on your specific facts, so speak with an attorney or the Circuit Court clerk about that issue.
Costs: Court filing fees in Missouri typically run $200-$500, and the total cost of a stepparent adoption done without an attorney is typically under $1,000.
Stepparent adoption in Missouri at a glance
- Court
- Circuit Court
- Residency before filing
- No minimum period
- Typical timeline
- 3-6 months
- Court filing fee
- $200-$500
- Child must consent at age
- 14
- Home study
- Usually waived for stepparents
- Missouri families we've helped
- 971
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