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In New York, children age 14 and older must give their consent to the adoption (N.Y. Dom. Rel. Law § 111). This is a positive thing — it ensures the child is part of this important decision. In our experience, children are almost always enthusiastic about being officially adopted by their stepparent. The court will typically speak with the child briefly during the finalization hearing to confirm their consent.
Stepparent adoption in New York at a glance
- Court
- Family Court or Surrogate's Court
- Residency before filing
- No minimum period
- Typical timeline
- 3-6 months
- Court filing fee
- $200-$500
- Child must consent at age
- 14
- Home study
- May be required
- New York families we've helped
- 1,119
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