What should I wear to the adoption hearing in North Dakota?

Dress as you would for an important family event — respectful but not overly formal. The finalization hearing in District Court is a celebration, not a trial.

Recommended attire:

• Business casual is perfect — slacks and a nice shirt or blouse
• A suit or dress is fine but not required
• Clean and neat is the standard
• Some families wear matching outfits or "adoption day" t-shirts under nice clothes

What NOT to wear:

• Very casual clothing (shorts, flip-flops, tank tops)
• Clothing with offensive graphics or language
• Hats (remove in the courtroom)

For the child:

• Something nice but comfortable — they should feel good, not stiff
• Many families buy a special outfit for the occasion
• Some children wear "adopted" or "I got adopted!" shirts

What to bring:

• Photo ID for you and your spouse
• A copy of your filed documents (we provide these)
• A camera or phone for photos (ask the judge's permission first — most say yes)
• Family members — most judges welcome them
• Tissues — this is an emotional moment!

The hearing typically lasts 15–30 minutes. Most North Dakota judges are warm, congratulatory, and genuinely happy for your family. Many take photos from the bench.

Prepare your documents at stepparentadoption360.com/questionnaire ($349).