What if the biological parent lives in North Dakota but I live in another state?
North DakotaYou file where YOU and the child live — not where the biological parent lives. If you live in another state but the biological parent is in North Dakota, the adoption is filed in YOUR state, not North Dakota.
However, if you and the child live in North Dakota:
- You file in North Dakota District Court
- The biological parent can be served anywhere — in North Dakota or in another state
- The adoption follows North Dakota law regardless of where the other parent lives
- 6 months residency required (N.D.C.C. § 14-15-03)
If the biological parent lives in North Dakota and you live elsewhere:
- You file in YOUR state's court
- The biological parent is served at their North Dakota address
- North Dakota's laws do not govern — your state's laws do
- Contact us and we'll prepare documents for your state
Cross-state service of process:
- A sheriff or process server in North Dakota can serve the biological parent
- If the parent is cooperative, they can sign consent and have it notarized in North Dakota
- If the parent's location in North Dakota is unknown, service by publication may be used
Cost: $349 regardless of which state | Call (855) 924-0450 to discuss your multi-state situation.
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