What if my adopted child wants to find their biological parent later?

Adoption doesn't erase the biological parent from existence — it changes the legal relationship. Here's what to know:

After adoption:

• The original birth certificate is sealed (not destroyed)
• Adoption records are typically confidential but not permanently inaccessible
• Many states now have mutual consent registries where adopted persons and biological parents can register willingness to connect

When the child is an adult:

• They can petition the court to unseal adoption records in most states
• DNA testing (like 23andMe or AncestryDNA) is increasingly common
• Many adoption reunion resources exist

Our advice to families:

• Be honest with the child about their history (age-appropriately)
• Adoption doesn't require pretending the biological parent doesn't exist
• Many adopted children have healthy curiosity that doesn't diminish their bond with the adoptive parent
• The legal relationship with you is permanent regardless

Important: Searching for a biological parent later does NOT undo the adoption. Your parental rights are permanent. The child will always be legally yours.

Call (855) 924-0450 if you want to discuss how to handle these conversations.