What should I wear to an adoption hearing?
Business casual is perfect. Think of it as a special occasion — respectful but not overly formal.
Good choices:
- Dress pants/khakis and a button-down shirt or blouse
- A dress or skirt suit
- Clean, neat jeans with a nice top (acceptable in many courts)
- Closed-toe shoes
What to avoid:
- Flip-flops or sandals
- Tank tops or sleeveless shirts
- Hats (remove in the courtroom)
- Very casual clothing (shorts, t-shirts with graphics)
For the child:
- Many families dress up the child in something special for the occasion
- Some get matching outfits for the family
- The child should be clean and presentable but comfortable
What to bring:
- Photo ID
- Your case number
- Any documents the court requested
- A camera or phone for photos (most judges allow photos after the hearing)
- Family members and friends — they're welcome!
Remember: The adoption hearing is a celebration. Judges are happy for your family. Dress nicely, bring your smile, and enjoy the moment. Many families frame photos from their adoption day.
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