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Blended families are our specialty. When both spouses have children from prior relationships, here's how it works:
Scenario 1: Husband adopts wife's children AND wife adopts husband's children
- Two separate adoption petitions are filed
- Each spouse adopts the other's children
- Can sometimes be combined into one hearing
- Our fee: $349 per adoption (may offer a package discount — call to ask)
Scenario 2: Only one spouse needs to adopt
- More common — typically one spouse has children from a prior relationship
- Standard stepparent adoption process: $349
Key considerations for blended families:
- Each adoption is evaluated separately
- Different biological parents may have different consent/abandonment situations
- Children from different relationships may have different timelines
- Some children may be adults (simpler process) while others are minors
Benefits of cross-adoption in blended families:
- All children have the same legal status
- No "step" distinctions in the eyes of the law
- Equal inheritance rights for all children
- Simplified insurance, school, and medical paperwork
Call us to discuss your specific family configuration: (855) 924-0450
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