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A PCS move does not create a waiting period for a stepparent adoption in Washington, because the state has no minimum residency period (RCW 26.33.030). You can start whenever your family is ready, including right after you arrive or before orders take you elsewhere. Washington data doesn't address military moves specifically, so the points below separate what we know from what the court clerk should confirm.
If you are arriving in Washington:
- There is no set number of months you must live in the state before filing.
- Adoptions are handled by the Superior Court. Which county's court is the right one for your situation is something the Superior Court clerk in your county can confirm.
If you are about to PCS away:
- Timing matters, since a stepparent adoption in Washington typically takes about 3-6 months.
- Starting before a move may give the court more time to work with your family, but how a move affects a case already filed depends on the court and your facts.
- Whether a Superior Court allows remote or telephone participation at the final hearing, or how it handles a family that has left the state, is a question for the clerk in the county where you file. Ask before you go, and get the answer in writing if you can.
What stays the same wherever you are stationed:
- Home study: The home study rules are in RCW 26.33.220. Ask the clerk how the court in your county handles the home study if your family is moving.
- Background checks: Washington requires criminal background checks for adoptive parents. Build that into your schedule so it doesn't slow things down near a move date.
- Child's consent: A child who is 14 or older must consent (RCW § 26.33.160). If your child is close to that age, plan for it.
- The other parent: Washington has no fixed number of months for abandonment. It depends on the parent's overall conduct (RCW § 26.33.120). If the other parent's consent is uncertain or contested, that depends on your facts, so talk with the court clerk or an attorney about your specific situation.
Benefits after adoption: Many military families ask about dependent status, TRICARE, and ID cards after a stepparent adoption. Those are decided by the military, not the Washington court. Check with your installation's ID card office or personnel office about what paperwork they need from the final decree.
Cost: Court filing fees in Washington typically run $200-$500, and the total cost of a self-filed adoption is typically under $1,000. Attorney representation commonly runs $3,000-$5,000 or more.
Practical steps:
- Pull together your marriage information, your child's details, and your orders or timeline.
- Call the Superior Court clerk in the county where you plan to file and ask about remote hearings, scheduling around a move, and filing requirements.
- Keep copies of everything you file.
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Stepparent adoption in Washington at a glance
- Court
- Superior Court
- Residency before filing
- No minimum period
- Typical timeline
- 3-6 months
- Court filing fee
- $200-$500
- Child must consent at age
- 14
- Home study
- May be required
- Washington families we've helped
- 1,104
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