Can I adopt my stepchild while my spouse is deployed from Washington?

This depends on the specific circumstances, but generally, adoption requires both spouses to participate in the process.

Challenges with deployment:

• Your spouse (the child's biological parent) typically needs to sign the adoption petition and may need to appear at the finalization hearing
• The spouse's signature can often be obtained through notarized documents sent to the deployment location
• Some Washington Superior Court courts allow virtual appearances for the finalization hearing

Options:

1. Start the process now — complete the questionnaire and prepare documents while your spouse is deployed. Have them sign and notarize their portions at the deployment location.
2. Wait for return — if the deployment is short, it may be easier to wait and file together
3. File and request virtual hearing — many courts accommodate military families with remote participation

The Servicemembers Civil Relief Act (SCRA):

• If the biological parent (the one whose rights are being terminated) is in the military, the SCRA may provide additional protections and delays
• This is separate from your spouse's deployment

After adoption, the child becomes a military dependent with access to all benefits — TRICARE, dependent ID, commissary, schooling benefits, and more.

Residency: 0 months in Washington | Cost: $349

Call (855) 924-0450 to discuss your deployment timeline and we will plan accordingly.