Will my stepchild know about the adoption in Louisiana?

Yes, and that's a wonderful thing. In Louisiana, children age 12 and older must actually consent to the adoption (La. Ch.C. Art. 1193), so they'll definitely know.

For younger children, whether and how to tell them is your family's choice. Here's what we've seen over 34,000+ adoptions:

Most families do tell the child, because:

• Children often already know the stepparent isn't their "legal" parent
• The finalization hearing is a celebration — many families bring everyone
• Kids are typically overjoyed to be "officially" adopted
• It provides security and belonging

How families handle it:

• Some make "Adoption Day" an annual celebration
• Some get special certificates or gifts for the child
• Some let the child choose a new name

The court hearing itself is warm and positive. Many Louisiana judges take photos with the family and congratulate the child. It's a beautiful moment.