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The adoption can still proceed. Many families complete stepparent adoption when the biological parent lives abroad.
Service of process internationally:
- May require service through the Hague Convention process or letters rogatory (depending on the country)
- Can be more complex and take longer than domestic service
- Service by publication may be an option if the foreign address is unknown
If the bio parent is cooperative:
- They can sign consent at a U.S. consulate or embassy in their country
- The consent must be properly notarized/authenticated
If the bio parent is absent/uninvolved:
- Abandonment can still be established regardless of their location
- The fact that they live in another country doesn't excuse lack of contact with the child
Our recommendation:
- Use our document preparation service ($349) for all court filings
- If international service is needed, consult with a family law attorney about the service process specifically
- Call us at (855) 924-0450 to discuss your situation
We've handled many international scenarios over our 25+ years.
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