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What if the other parent lives in a different country?

1 min readHelping families since 2001State requirements vary
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The adoption can still proceed. Many families complete stepparent adoption when the biological parent lives abroad.

Service of process internationally:

  • May require service through the Hague Convention process or letters rogatory (depending on the country)
  • Can be more complex and take longer than domestic service
  • Service by publication may be an option if the foreign address is unknown

If the bio parent is cooperative:

  • They can sign consent at a U.S. consulate or embassy in their country
  • The consent must be properly notarized/authenticated

If the bio parent is absent/uninvolved:

  • Abandonment can still be established regardless of their location
  • The fact that they live in another country doesn't excuse lack of contact with the child

Our recommendation:

  • Use our document preparation service ($349) for all court filings
  • If international service is needed, consult with a family law attorney about the service process specifically
  • Call us at (855) 924-0450 to discuss your situation

We've handled many international scenarios over our 25+ years.

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Published by Douglas Brown & the StepParent Adoption 360 team

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