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A contested adoption — where the biological parent actively opposes the adoption — is uncommon but does happen. Here's what to expect in New Jersey:
What "contested" means:
The biological parent has been served with the adoption petition and files a response objecting to it. This is different from simply not signing consent — a parent who doesn't respond is NOT contesting.
What happens next:
- The Superior Court schedules a hearing
- Both sides present evidence
- The judge determines whether the biological parent has maintained a meaningful relationship with the child
- If abandonment is established (6+ months, N.J.S.A. § 9:3-46), the adoption typically proceeds
Our recommendation for contested cases:
- Continue using our document preparation service ($349) for all paperwork
- Also consult with a New Jersey family law attorney for court representation
- Many attorneys will provide limited-scope representation for just the hearing
Reality check: In our 25+ years, contested adoptions that actually go to a hearing are rare. Most biological parents who initially object ultimately don't follow through.
Stepparent adoption in New Jersey at a glance
- Court
- Superior Court
- Residency before filing
- No minimum period
- Typical timeline
- 3-6 months
- Court filing fee
- $200-$350
- Child's consent
- New Jersey does not require the child's consent; a child 10 or older attends the final hearing and the court considers the child's wishes
- Home study
- Usually waived for stepparents
- New Jersey families we've helped
- 1,204
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