My teenager wants to be adopted — how do we handle their consent in Wisconsin?

This is wonderful! When a teenager is enthusiastic about adoption, it makes the process even more meaningful.

How teen consent works in Wisconsin:

• Children age 14 and older must formally consent (Wis. Stat. § 48.42)
• We include a Consent of Child form in your document package
• The teenager signs this form, which is filed with the court
• At the finalization hearing, the Circuit Court judge may ask the teenager to confirm their consent in person

What the judge typically asks the teen:

• "Do you want to be adopted by [stepparent name]?"
• "Do you understand what adoption means?"
• "Is this your free choice?"

These are warm, supportive questions — the judge wants to confirm the teen is happy about this. Teenagers often describe the hearing as one of the best days of their lives.

Special considerations for teens:

• The teenager can choose to change their last name (or keep it)
• They can participate in planning the adoption day
• Some families let the teen choose a new middle name as part of the adoption
• Many teens want to make the day special — invite family, take photos, celebrate

Process in Wisconsin:

• Timeline: 3-6 months
• Cost: $349 + court fees
• All documents prepared within 24 hours

Start at stepparentadoption360.com/questionnaire — your teenager can even help fill it out!