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How do I adopt my stepchild if the biological mother won't sign in Tennessee?

1 min readHelping families since 2001Tennessee
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The same process applies regardless of whether it's the biological mother or father who refuses. Over 80% of our adoptions proceed without the other parent's consent.

If the biological mother has abandoned the child:

  • No meaningful contact for 4+ months constitutes abandonment under Tenn. Code Ann. § 36-1-113
  • "Token contact" (an occasional call or text) does not negate abandonment
  • Paying child support does not negate abandonment
  • The Chancery or Circuit Court can terminate her rights based on abandonment
  • This is a more complex situation
  • The court evaluates her actual involvement with the child
  • If she has been marginally involved, the case can still proceed
  • If she is actively involved, this may require a contested hearing

The process:

  1. We prepare an abandonment affidavit documenting the mother's absence
  2. She is served with the adoption petition
  3. She has a set period to respond
  4. If she does not respond, the adoption proceeds
  5. If she responds and contests, a hearing is scheduled

In Tennessee, termination can be handled within the adoption proceeding.

Cost: $349 | Timeline: 3-6 months | Call (855) 924-0450

Stepparent adoption in Tennessee at a glance

Court
Chancery or Circuit Court
Residency before filing
No minimum period
Typical timeline
3-6 months
Court filing fee
$150-$350
Child must consent at age
14
Home study
Usually waived for stepparents
Tennessee families we've helped
967

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