No. This is one of the most common misconceptions. Paying child support does NOT negate abandonment in Virginia (or any state).
Abandonment under Va. Code § 63.2-1205 is about the relationship with the child — not financial obligations. A parent who sends money but has no meaningful contact with the child for 6+ months is still considered to have abandoned the child.
The key factors the Circuit Court looks at:
- Has the parent visited the child?
- Has the parent communicated with the child?
- Has the parent participated in the child's life?
If the answer to all of these is "no" for 6+ months, the court will likely find abandonment — regardless of whether child support was paid.
We include a detailed abandonment affidavit in your document package that addresses exactly these factors.
Stepparent adoption in Virginia at a glance
- Court
- Circuit Court
- Residency before filing
- No minimum period
- Typical timeline
- 3-6 months
- Court filing fee
- $150-$300
- Child must consent at age
- 14
- Home study
- Usually waived for stepparents
- Virginia families we've helped
- 1,181
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