No. This is one of the most common misconceptions. Paying child support does NOT negate abandonment in North Dakota (or any state).
Abandonment under N.D.C.C. § 14-15-19 is about the relationship with the child — not financial obligations. A parent who sends money but has no meaningful contact with the child for 12+ months is still considered to have abandoned the child.
The key factors the District Court looks at:
- Has the parent visited the child?
- Has the parent communicated with the child?
- Has the parent participated in the child's life?
If the answer to all of these is "no" for 12+ months, the court will likely find abandonment — regardless of whether child support was paid.
We include a detailed abandonment affidavit in your document package that addresses exactly these factors.
Stepparent adoption in North Dakota at a glance
- Court
- District Court
- Residency before filing
- No minimum period
- Typical timeline
- 3-6 months
- Child must consent at age
- 10
- Home study
- Usually waived for stepparents
- North Dakota families we've helped
- 172
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