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In many states, yes. While traditional stepparent adoption requires marriage, several states recognize domestic partnerships or civil unions and allow adoption by registered partners.
States with clear paths for domestic partners:
California, Colorado, Connecticut, Hawaii, Illinois, Maine, Nevada, New Jersey, Oregon, Vermont, Washington, and Washington D.C. all have provisions for non-married partners.
Options if your state doesn't recognize domestic partnerships:
- Get married — this provides the clearest legal path in every state
- Second parent adoption — available in many states for unmarried partners
- Petition the court — some judges grant adoptions to unmarried partners on a case-by-case basis
The adoption process and documents are similar regardless of your marital status. Our fee is the same $349, and we prepare documents based on your specific state's laws.
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