Can I adopt my stepchild if there is a restraining order against the biological parent in New Hampshire?

Yes, and a restraining order can actually strengthen your adoption case. The existence of a protective order demonstrates that the biological parent has been found to pose a risk — which supports termination of parental rights.

How a restraining order helps your case in New Hampshire:

• It provides documented evidence of concerning behavior (violence, threats, stalking, etc.)
• It shows the court has already found the parent to be a risk
• Combined with abandonment (6+ months no contact under RSA § 170-C:5), the case is very strong
• The child's best interest is clearly served by having a safe, stable legal parent

Service of process with a restraining order:

• The restraining order does NOT prevent service of the adoption petition
• The biological parent must still be legally notified of the adoption
• Service is done through formal legal channels (sheriff, process server) — not personal contact
• The restraining order remains in effect throughout the process

Important for your safety:

• You do NOT need to have any personal contact with the biological parent
• All communication goes through the court system
• If you're concerned about the parent's reaction to being served, discuss this with local law enforcement

In New Hampshire:

• Filed in Circuit Court
• Timeline: 3-6 months
• Cost: $349 document preparation

We include all necessary documents in your package. Call (855) 924-0450 — we handle these sensitive situations with care.